Upper Body Sitting Forward Lean
Lower Body Standing  

   Flirting Techniques > Lower Body >
 

 

 

 

 

 
Lower Body Sitting
Courtship Gestures




Straight On

Very few flirting gestures here, and not very interesting.

 

 

 

 

 



Add A Little Self-Touching

A little self-touching, no matter how subtle, adds interest. Remember, we touch or reach out as if to touch, or touch ourselves when we are around people we find attractive.

 

 

 


 



Thigh and Calf Flash

Thigh and calf flashs really attract guys. A "forward lean" then adds intimacy.


 

 

 





 

Raised Thigh Flash
This holds his attention but the lean back reduces the intensity.

 

 

 



 

Then A Courtship Lean Forward
By leaning in, she increases the person intimacy again.

 

 

 

 


 

Self Touching
Then a little self-touching

 

 

 

 

 

Putting it all together we have:
 1. Self-touching
 2. Thigh flashes
 3. Chest thrusts (Leaning Back)
 4. Forward leans

Compare the photos. Can you see how Amy is using nonverbal signals to attract and hold someone's attention, step by step?