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COOL WAYS TO MEET ATTRACTIVE STRANGERS
FOR WOMEN: Just hand him your card.
A lady did this to me last Friday night. I had been talking
with her earlier, she just came over, said nothing and handed
me her card. I got the idea. She was cool! 31 October 2001
FOR MEN: Go To The Same Places Often
Familiarity breeds confidence. When you go to the same coffee
shops, classes, clubs, meetings you will become more comfortable.
The surroundings, the people, the activities and the WOMEN
will become familiar and you will function better.
The women who also frequent these place will become more
at ease with you and therefore, easier to meet. But wait.
it only counts if the places you frequent are places where
(A) women you find attractive gather and (B) socializing is
allowed. No going to the movies every Thursday night. That
won't do you any good. 16 Oct 2001
FOR WOMEN: Go To The Same Places Often
Familiarity breeds confidence. When you go to the same coffee
shops, classes, clubs, meetings you will become more comfortable.
The surroundings, the people, the activities and the MEN will
become familiar and you will function better.
The men who also frequent these place will become more at
ease with you and therefore, easier to meet. But wait, it
only counts if the places you frequent are places where (A)
GUYS you find attractive gather and (B) socializing is allowed.
No going to the movies every Thursday night. That won't do
you any good. 12 October 2001
FOR MEN AND WOMEN: Sit At The Front Of The
Room
When you go to a public gathering, sit at the front. That
will give everyone behind you an opportunity to see you. You
never can tell who will fall in love with the back of your
head. Hint: turn around so they can see your face. Also chat
with the people on either side. That will make you appear
friendly and approachable. After the meeting, hang around
and see what happens. 10 October 2001
FOR MEN: Be Seen Doing Something Sensitive
As part of the "Setting The Stage", be seen doing
something sensitve like admiring a flower or petting a cat.
(All that macho stuff; i.e.making noise and flexing muslces,
is your fantasy; not hers.) Women are watching to see if there
is anyone "at home" in there.
Evolutionary biologists tell us that women evolved to look
for traits that suggest that he is not only healthy, but will
hang around. Enjoying music, reading a book, chatting with
people, all suggest that you have some education and values.
That's not all you have to do, but it's definitely one part.
8 Oct 2001
FOR WOMEN: Use the "Universal Flirt"
A French ethnologist studied courtship all over the world
and found only one universal flirt. If its good enough for
Parisians, Fiji Islanders and Ethiopians, maybe you should
try it. It goes like this...
A. eye contact
B. smile
C. glance down
It certainly fits in with the theory which is to:
A. attract attention and then
B. give permission to approach.
If this rubs your liberated woman side the wrong way, remember...you
are dealing with men. Men or not rational beings. 8 Oct 2001
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